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I learned it the hard way: trying to deal with an emotional manipulator can cost you dearly. Emotional manipulators defy logic. They derive satisfaction from controlling you and creating chaos.

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I learned it the hard way: trying to deal with an emotional manipulator can cost you dearly.

Emotional manipulators are toxic.

We all know what it feels like to be emotionally manipulated. It can be extremely damaging and destructive. Because emotional manipulation can be so destructive, it is important to recognize it in your own life and to make it a rule to stay away from the emotional manipulators.

Emotional manipulators are naturally very skillful. They are incredibly skilled liars. They will insist an incident did not happen when it did. They will insist they did or said something when they did not. By doing so, they undermine your grasp on reality. They are so good at it that you end up questioning your own sanity.

Emotional manipulators will tell you what you want to hear, but their actions do not match their words. They will pledge their support, but, when it comes time to follow through, they will act as though your requests are entirely unreasonable. They will tell you how lucky they are to know you, and then act as though you are a burden. They make you mold your perception of reality according to what is convenient to them.

they are masters at leveraging your guilt to their advantage. Whatever the problems the two of you are having, you created that situation. Nothing is ever their responsibility. If you get mad or upset, it is your fault for having unreasonable expectations. If they get mad, it is your fault for upsetting them.

They are an emotional black hole.

Whatever emotional manipulators are feeling, they are geniuses at sucking everyone around them into those emotions. If they are in a bad mood, everyone around them knows it. They are so skillful that, not only is everyone aware of their mood, they feel it too.

They eagerly agree to help and then act like a martyr. Whatever they agreed to do is a huge burden. The goal? To make you feel guilty, indebted and maybe even crazy. No matter what problems you may have, they have it worse. The message? You have no reason to complain, so shut the fuck up.

They know all your buttons and do not hesitate to push them. They know your weak spots, and they are quick to use that knowledge against you. Their awareness of your emotions is off the charts and they use it to manipulate you, not to make you feel better.

Stay away from the emotional manipulators.

Emotional manipulators will drive you crazy because of their irrational behavior. Everything they do or say goes against reason. Remove yourself from their traps. You do not need to respond to the emotional chaos. Avoid allowing yourself to respond to them emotionally. Quit trying to beat them at their own game. Distance yourself from them. Establish boundaries. And do so consciously and proactively.

Stick to your guns.

Nobody can manipulate you without your consent and cooperation.Stay away from the emotional manipulators.

They are toxic.

JMD

Owner of Bunkumless.com and King Global Earth and Environmental Sciences Corporation, JMD, a former attorney, is a Columnist for The Futurist Daily News and editor of the Social and Political Blog JMDlive.com  Follow JMD @ jmdlive

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“Despairing white middle-class has long yearned for a white knight to fight for it against the global economic elite.” – Trump is that white knight.

Trump, to enter the race to the GOP nomination, from a billionaire real estate mogul, has entirely reinvented himself and could soon attempt another transformation. In words and deeds, he built his GOP candidacy by antagonizing Latinos and Muslims, immigrants and women, Jews and African-Americans, Asian Americans and the disabled. If he walks away now from his vows to deport 11 million illegal immigrants and to block Muslims from coming into the United States, he would abandon the source of his real political power: the rage of angry despairing white American middle-class.

Trump’s next move will be to capitalize on the outraged and despairing American middle class minorities and ethnic groups. His next story line: “I fight for all of you, I fight for America, I want you and America to be great again, without you, there is no America.” In this scenario, Trump will depict himself as the only one that can successfully fight against the establishment and the global economic elite. The narrative will go like this: “I cannot be bought, I cannot be blackmailed, I know these people, and I was one of them. I was greedy, I am now greedy for you, I am greedy for America, I want to make America great again, and I want to make you great again.”

Starting now, Trump will talk and act as if he was already elected as an assertive and authoritarian president demonstrating true leadership and determination. Instead of bullying and arguing with his opponents, he will ignore them and bring new people under the spotlight with him, people showing leadership and determination, people successful showing resilience with a proven track record demonstrating outstanding performance and results. This will no longer be a popularity contest. This will be the ultimate demonstration of the Trump power.

The question is not if Trump is going to win the nomination of the GOP, Trump will be the Republican nominee. The real question is: whom, from Hilary or Sanders, will Trump have to face for the presidency and can he be successful. The answer to this one is easy: whomever Trump has to face, he will emerge the winner. Facing Sanders would be a closer call but still.

While Trump is a billionaire capitalist turned as a greedy, greedy, greedy socialist and Sanders a self-avowed socialist, both men have tapped into a similar zeitgeist, as Americans are increasingly angry about stagnant incomes and a lack of economic opportunity despite the recovery since the global financial crisis. Trump’s supporters are convinced that he will “make America strong again” while Sanders’ fans believe that he will make the country more equitable for all Americans.

Trump is no longer in the GOP nomination race mood. He is now in the presidential race mood. This is a revolution of the middle class, a revolution of the people. Trump winning Iowa tonight, nobody other than Sanders can stop him.

To be continued…

JMD

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Big_Bang_Theory

In the beginning God created the Heaven and the Earth

[Genesis 1: 1]

INTRODUCTION

13.798 ± 0.037 billion years

The Age of the Universe

According to theory, the Big Bang occurred approximately 13.798 ± 0.037 billion years ago, which is thus, according to the model, the age of the Universe. In seconds 13.798 ± 0.037 billion years ago, the Universe went from nothing to an extremely hot and dense state rapidly expanding energy cloud. After its initial expansion, the Universe cooled down sufficiently to allow part of the primal energy created and released by the Big Bang to be converted into various subatomic particles, including protons, neutrons, and electrons. Though simple atomic nuclei formed within the first three minutes of the Big Bang giving birth to the Universe, thousands of years three hundred thousands  passed before the appearance of hydrogen, helium and lithium, the first electrically neutral atoms. Later, through gravity, giant clouds of these primordial elements coalesced to form the stars and galaxies allowing heavier elements to be synthetized either within stars or during supernovae. Over time, Over a long period of time , the slightly denser regions of the nearly uniformly distributed matter gravitationally attracted nearby matter to grew even denser and form more gas clouds, even more stars and new galaxies, all the astronomical structures that we can observe today.

The Future of the Universe

While the Universe is still expanding today, there are two possible scenarios to be considered for the future. If, at the time of the Big bang, the mass density of the Universe was greater than its critical density, in time, the Universe will reach a maximum size and then begin to collapse in a “Big Crunch” to finally end in a similar state to that in which it started. On the other hand, if at the time of the Big Bang, the mass density of the Universe was equal to or below its critical density, in time, the expansion of the Universe will slow down without ever stopping expanding. With the accelerating consumption of interstellar gas in every galaxy, stars formation will cease and existing stars eventually burn out leaving only white dwarfs, neutron stars, and black holes. Very gradually, collisions between these newly created astronomical structures will result in new astronomic masses accumulating into larger and larger black holes. The average temperature of the Universe will then asymptotically approach absolute zero and result in a “Big Freeze.” Moreover, if at the time of the Big Bang, the protons were unstable, then, it is to be expected that, in some distant future, all baryonic matter will ultimately disappear, leaving only radiation and even more black holes. All black holes evaporating, the entropy of the Universe will then increase to the point where no organized form of energy could be extracted from the Universe, thus resulting in an end scenario of the Universe known as “Heat Death.”

The Fundamental Laws of the Universe

The reality of Big Bang theory depends on two major assumptions: the universality of the laws of physic and the existence and reality of the cosmological principle. The cosmological principle states that, on large scales, the Universe being homogeneous and isotropic, an important feature of the Big Bang “spacetime” is the presence of horizons. Since the Universe has a finite age, and light travels at a finite speed, there may be events in the past whose light has not had time to reach us yet, thus creating a limit or “past horizon” on the most distant objects that can be observed today. Conversely, because the Universe is still expanding, and more distant objects are receding ever more quickly in space, light emitted by us today may never catch up to the very distant celestial objects and bodies. This defines a “future horizon”, which limits the upcoming events that mankind will be able to read or influence. Modern observations of the accelerating expansion of the Universe imply that more and more of the currently visible Universe will pass beyond our “actual event horizon” and out of contact with us. The eventual result and consequences of such observable phenomenon and fundamental laws of the Universe is still unknown and highly unpredictable. Will only gravitationally bound systems, such as galaxies, remain together to be subjected to a “Heat Death” finale as the Universe expands and cools? Or will, according to the “Phantom Energy theories”, galaxies, clusters, stars, planets, atoms, nuclei, and matter itself, ultimately be torn apart in a “Big Rip” resulting from the ever-increasing expansion of the Universe? These are questions that we still cannot answer today and probably will never be able to answer as long as we will not be able to travel and communicate in space faster than light.

And What About God?

Nevertheless and contradicting all religious, philosophical and spiritual actual and immemorial beliefs, since its introduction in 1927, the Big Bang theory has been the prevailing model and explanation for the early development of the Universe, the creation of Heavens and Earth. Today, while most everyone and all religions of the world admit and concur with science, some believing the Big Bang theory of the creation of the Universe still implies a “Creator”, while others argue that Big Bang model and cosmology makes the notion of a “Creator” or the “Divine” absolutely unnecessary and superfluous, the Big Bang theory is still one of the liveliest and the foremost areas in the discourse between science and religion. No Creator, no God! This is now the foremost raging debate between creationists and evolutionists. And what is it to say about all these religions, these philosophical, religious and spiritual beliefs? If indeed there is a creator, if indeed the Universe, as well as mankind and all humanity is the result of the intervention of the divine, who is this omnipotent, omnipresent almighty “God” that created Mankind, the Universe, the Heavens and the Earth? Where does he come from and, more importantly, whose “God” is it that is the “Creator” and whom is he speaking too? For the creationists, whatever their nationality, their religious or spiritual background, for the tenants of the existence of a supreme omnipresent and omnipotent being or deity, their “God” and only their “God” is “The Creator” and, for every one of them, especially the more fanatic, they are all, each one of them, ready to die confessing or to kill whoever do not share their faith and, all of this, only to prove their point. While the reality of the Big Bang is well established, it is still a model of the creation to be likely further examined and refined. As for the reality of the “Divine” and “God,” lets solve that issue once and for all.

To be continued…

JMD

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Looking for signs

What is wrong with you people; can’t you read the signs?
The final countdown | by: Michel Ouellette JMD

 A magic show is no magic, but merely illusion. Magicians simply know something you don’t: how the trick works.

Was there ever an infallible prophet?

People subconsciously make hundreds if not thousands of tiny predictions each day. The human brain knows what is going to happen before it does. When watching everyday activity unfold, one makes predictions about what will happen a few seconds out and, most of the time, these predictions are right. Such successful predictions are associated with the subjective experience of a smooth stream of consciousness.

Life is just plain easier when you can see what is ahead of you

Some individuals have very poor vision; their most refined skill seems to be constantly and unavoidably running into brick walls. Some others possess simply adequate vision; they surely can avoid the obvious speed bumps, but surely always fail to stand out from the crowd. And then, there are the ones, who possess that legendary vision that everyone is talking about; these are the rare few who can see around the corners and really foretell both, the near and far future.

Everyonecan learn to see around corners

The only, true and real, secret to understand and predict the future is to sincerely, deeply and thoroughly understand past history and human nature. People and past events are the key indications to the future. It is human nature that paves the path into the future. Today’s decisions and actions, good and bad, rightful or evil, are now shaping tomorrow’s reality. Everyone with a very good understanding of the human nature and past history can adequately predict the future. Engage with people, understand their motivations, understand their aspirations, learn about their past and their future will be revealed. A magic show is no magic, but merely illusion. Magicians simply know something you don’t: how the trick works.

Understanding Motivations


One never knows or understands a person until one knows what motivates that person. Predicting the future is merely reasonably predicting the natural and rational consequences of today’s observable events and actual actions or reactions of people to such events according to their instruction, their social background, their education, motivations and aspirations. Their motivations and aspirations speak to who a person is, what one values, how one works, and why one does what he or she does. Know one thoroughly, predict is future and the shape of events.

Seeing Through the Rhetoric


More important than what a person says is what that person does. Observe the decisions they make, the decisions they don’t make, the relationships they value, the relationships they don’t value), the courage they display, the courage they fail to display, the challenges they accept, the challenge they walk away from and predict their future. Observation and understanding is key to predicting the future. There is no reason to be surprised by tomorrow, unless you fail to accurately observe and understand what his really happening today.

Look for the Signs

Few things will help discern the future of a culture, of a society, of a person, of a career, of a project, of a product, or company like taking a close look into the character and commitment of the people involved. The signs of times are always clearly visible to those who look. Visionaries can always clearly see the reality of a situation rather than the illusion of such reality. True visionaries can tell between illusion and reality of an event or circumstance. They refrain from the common delusion of seeing what they choose to see and base their predictions on a realistic interpretation of the signs.

Changing the Future


Learn about yourself today and become very intentional about developing those skills that will allow you to build your preferred future. Look around you for people of influence in learn to know them. You cannot effectively positively impact on those you don’t know and don’t understand. Fail to do so, fail to understand their motivation and aspirations and build yourself a failed future. Focus on those skills and qualities that are appealing to human nature. Observe and understand the signs of times, and learn to adapt to the changing times. Become a better self and you will not only predict the future, you will have the power to influence and change it in your favor.

There is no secret in predicting the future. All what it takes is time, time to observe and time to understand.

Another alternative would be to write the book after the fact.

To be continued…

JMD

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The final countdown | by: Michel Ouellette JMD

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To be continued…

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Whatever!

“One day, it was suddenly revealed to me that everyone and everything was Pure Energy, that everyone and everything was Pure Spirit. The utensils of worship, the altar, the door-frame, they were all Pure Spirit and Pure Energy. The men, the animals, and all other living beings, they were all Pure Energy and Pure Spirit. Then, like a madman I began to shower flowers in all directions. Whatever I saw I worshiped.” 

Ramakrishna

 

“One day, early in the morning, right after breakfast, in the bathroom, while doing my number two, it was suddenly revealed to me that everything is Pure Spirit: the toilet paper I was holding in my hand, the throne I was sitting on, the utensils of worship, the altar, the church, the bathroom, the stairs, the door-frame, the door, all Pure Spirit. The priests, the murderers, the holy, the rapist, men, animals, cockroaches and all other living beings, it was suddenly revealed to me that they were all Pure Spirit. Then, like a mad man, I began to throw and shower flowers in all directions. Whatever I saw I started worshiping.”

Most of the people today

To be continued…

JMD

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